getting over it

I'm not really sure why my feelings are hurt. It's not personal and I know that.

Kathy and I have had a turbulent year and I have tried really hard to not live in the past.
I have forgiven her for her cruelty to me.
I have tried really hard to develop a friendship with her and their parents.
It's just not possible.
It's not that they don't like me.
Kathy has said that. She just isn't a social person.
I guess I just wish she would make more of an effort.
But it doesn't matter. It really doesn't. Has nothing to do with bad feelings or the past. It's just how it is.
Dana has dated me off and on for over a year and has lived with me for about 3 months and still no one from his family has ever been to my house. I'm about a half hour away but I may as well be on the moon.

I'm done asking. I'm done trying. I'll still stop in and visit when I'm over there but I won't invite them to my home anymore. They obviously don't want to come and having to turn me down I'm sure is almost as uncomfortable for them as being turned down is for me.

I tried. I have made the effort. There are no negative feelings on their behalf. I guess I just need to move on.

But my feelings are hurt.