Reasons to say no

1) Too possessive
2) doesn't hold doors open
3) walks too far ahead (I know this sounds petty but what is wrong with a romantic walk?)
4) Not a self starter
5) will not putter around house unless I am either there or have the same amount of assigned projects
6) likes to argue
7) No matter what I say or state he will take an extra few min to think of how I may be wrong or could have worded it different.
8) doesn't "get" my jokes
9) or if he does he doesn't think they are funny
10) ***
11) has poor social skills
12) is not protective of me
13) sees me resting as being lazy
14) he doesn't want to make things easier for me
15) is not considerate of me sleeping (he knows I sleep very light and restless and does nothing to be quiet so I can stay asleep)
16) high maintenence (won't fend for himself without an attitude)
17) hates it when I have plans separate of him
18) calls and gives me an attitude about being gone to long then when I do rush right home he says that he "didn't expect" me to rush right home. (um, yeah you did)
19) plays head games. If the dog needs to go out he will sit right there and do nothing but once I get up to let her out he jumps up to get ahead of me and lets her out.
20) crowds me when we are walking and always has to be first
21) fakes sleeping when dog needs to go out in the night.
22) doesn't respect boundaries (reads over my shoulder and is always checking my phone)
23) I have total lack of privacy. He thinks nothing of going through my underwear drawer, purse, mail.
24) puts the TV on mute to listen to me in the bathroom (which he knows I detest)
25) thinks things like the above 3 things are no big deal and he actually laughs when I get upset.
26) Doesn't engage in conversation unless he knows the people very well and will even sometimes have his own conversation on the side
27) raises his voice at me then says that I over reacting
28) complains of money (not very often)
29) immature
30) needy
31) doesn't think we should do much of anything separate ("we are a couple and couples do things together")
32) doesn't give me space and time with my friends (Lee has come over a few times and even though we don't mind him being there he never leaves us alone to just have girl talk)
33) tries to put time limits on me when I do something without him (told me how long he thinks dinner with Lee should take. If we meet at 5:30 then there's no reason why I shouldn't be home by 8)
34) has threatened to come down to Auburn and get me if I didn't come home right then. (it's been awhile since then)
35)I find myself constantly making excuses for his moods (he's not as bad as he used to be)
36) very moody (I swear he is a woman trapped in a man's body)
37) has poor hearing and will not go to a dr about it (or # 10)
38) doesn't hear when I tell him things then gets mad at me for not telling him.
39) when he does hear me he doesn't acknowledge that I said something and when I say his name for acknowledgment he snaps at me that he heard me (how the fuck am I supposed tnow if you don't even look at me?)
40) copies me (if I work outside he works outside, if I work inside he works inside, if I stop for a break or a drink or food or the bathroom so doesn't he)
41) if I grab a snack or a drink and don't get some for him he is all hurt (I can understand that to a point but EVERY fucking time?)
42) takes things too far when joking around (I will think he is joking but then he doesn't stop and I start to think he's serious then when I taking him seriously he'll say that he's joking. I just can't tell most of the time)
43) he has yelled at me in front of family and friends
44) he has embarrassed me with his moods and attitude in front of family and friends
45) I walk on eggshells around him because I never know what it's going to take to set him off on a rant that he will swear later was a joke
46) I'm exhausted from trying to meet his expectations (which I don't believe I ever can)
47) cannot multi task
48) gets very overwhelmed by any projects no matter how small
49) shoots down my dreams and plans for the house (anytime I say I want to do or buy something he will snap at me that we can't do EVERYTHING in one summer. I know that, most of it is me thinking out loud)
50) constantly reminds me of past indiscretions
51) judgemental (I cannot share with him my whole past)
52) he minds my schedule and business and gets mad if I don't do things like he thinks I should
53) brings my phone to me if I have a text message and gets mad if I set it down without reading the message. (I do that to irritate him)
54) he CANNOT not read the message or listen to the voicemail or answer the phone (again I do these things to irritate him)
55) he drives horribly ('nuff said)