Confession time
You know that Dana has been emailing me. Well I answered back over the weekend and agreed to meet him for dinner on Tuesday night. I don't know what the hell I'm doing or why I'm doing it.
I want the kind of relationship I have with my Best Bud with Earl but that isn't happening and I have to finally realize that it may never happen. I wish I could have a closer relationship with my Best Bud because that would be a natural next step but that's not possible either.
The lonelies took over this weekend and I reacted. Now I feel like I should email him back, apologize and decline the invitation. I made it very clear that it was only as friends. That I have no interest in getting back together and there would be far too many obstacles anyways. He agreed there is alot of water under that proverbial bridge but that maybe we could end up friends.
Is that really possible?
3 comments:
Anything is possible sweetie. Just make sure you are firm and set your boundries with Dana right off the bat.
*switches to my concerned friend hat*
That said, I'm a bit afraid that he will see this as a small opening. The last month of your relationship with him had me afraid for you because of his stalking, anger and expectations. So, be careful honey.
love you. (((u)))
I'm not sure I think it's the healthiest idea for you to meet Dana at this point.
Just my unasked for 2 cents...
I dunno Boo... I cant say I dont have reservations about all of this. I know you just want to be friends, but do you think he's really capable of that? ...and what about the sister? She could be waiting somewhere with a shotgun or something! And yeah, that's extreme, but she's - loopy.
If you do go, please be ever so careful.
Love you sweety.
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