Now I have changed the address
I got a confession out of Kathy. She is the one who hacked my blog. She is the one who deleted my other blog. She is the one who is stalking me, checking up on me at all hours of the day and night. She even sent me a threatening email. In the subject line it said WARNING. She said "do I have to find Earl's girlfriend and show her what has been going on?" She told me to back off from Dana or there would be WAR.
What a fucking looney bird. I have not seen an obsession like this in my life. As far as backing off from Dana I broke up with him last Thursday and said no contact. He sent me an email with just Boo in the subject line. I sent him one back last night after I found out it was Kathy who was stalking me. I apologized for everything. Told him I loved him then and still do. I told him the kids and I missed him. I told him I'm sorry things turned out like they did. Wished him a good life. Then I said I wouldn't bother him ever again. End of story.
She on the other hand is a matter all in and of herself. I will be having a conversation with a friend who is in law enforcement this afternoon. Kathy is stalking me and threatening me and breaking into password protected sites and wreaking havoc. I believe stalking, including cyber stalking is against the law. I don't want to push this but I will if she doesn't cut the shit. This has crossed the border in the land of absolute stupidity and insaneness.
I will say in Dana's defense that I feel bad for him. I did see many signs of her obsessive behaviour with him and his struggle to break free of that. He did, on many occasions, tell her to back off. He has told her a few times to mind her own business.
She is so immature that she even made bad remarks about Shelby. Well I guess it was aimed at me. Said I had a low moral conscience for bringing a non-housetrained puppy into her mother's house. WTF??? To the best of my knowledge Shelby never soiled anything in that house. I watched her like a hawk. And this was said about the visit at Thanksgiving time, when he and I were truly happy together. Just shows me that she was a two faced bitch the whole time.
I don't even know why she got us together. I guess it would have been ok if I had been a bit more passive and a bit more conforming.
I still wish Dana the best. I am glad that I am out of that whole mess.
9 comments:
That bitch!! I know what your going through Babe, all to well. Im here if you need me. For anything.
i am pleased to read that all the havoc has not been dana. that does make me feel you are a bit safer - physically at least.
his sister is a crazy bitch indeed.
Ditto - what a flaming bitch! Please do call your friend, there has to be something they can do to help you.
That's the kind of woman my brother is involved with, now married to. 'Tis why I have no contact with him anymore.
I'm sorry you have to deal with it.
what the hell? what a loonybin.
please take good care. you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday.
HUGS
I'm sorry Hon. That is all very scary and freaky. Probably a wise idea to get all this on record via the law.
Good grief. Stay safe.
what crazy ass bitch. Just be safe honey. Talking with youur friend in law enforcement will at least give you options should this continue.
love you sweetie.
Thanks you guys. I have a couple of options on how I can handle this. I'm going to take the high road to start with but I'm not going to be made to feel afraid.
Lisa- thanks for the suggestion about Seven. Does he still have a blog site for that or should I just email him?
BTW...I do have most everything documented. I'm really glad she didn't delete this blog because it would have been harder to retrace my steps. This way the sequence of events is accurate. The only thing missing that I can really remember well is the conversation I had with Dana the last time I was in Boston. I probably should write it down although I no longer believe him to be the threat. Just gotta cover all my bases.
Imagine if I had dated him more than a year? Kathy would have gone off the deep end even worse.
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